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This soccer publication is oddly tedious, yet strangely compelling. Even title is confusing. The Dear England title currently is used by a hit theatrical production, an forthcoming television program, and a national address penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This edition of Dear England is not officially related to any of those. It represents an peculiar entry in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about guidance: a typically dull elite football manager theme that Southgate sticks to doggedly, relying on the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across its 336-page length.

Questions Posed

“What are leaders? What is the role of a leader? What insights do leaders have?” Southgate inquires in the opening, setting out his position, but choosing not to address “Why are leaders?”, questions probably set aside for a follow-up publication.

Beyond that, this publication contains a notable absence in the middle. It’s an attempt in subtly confrontational personal vindication, in nearly but not entirely stating the actual thing, jumping nimbly from lingering grievance to unscabbed wound across a collection of data visualizations, corporate platitudes and references about historical figures.

Engagement

Reading it is like listening to your parents having a polite but profoundly personal argument in the nearby area while you’re trying to pay attention on a corporate presentation named “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also difficult to disengage, as the author keeps approaching to something you actually wish to hear about, before unexpectedly veering away.

Disclosures

The book contains typically news headlines in publications like these, due to the intense obsession with England managerdom. The most notable ones are: he resolved he was definitely going to step down as England manager after spectators hurled containers at him at the Euros; he almost chose to abandoning the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were subjected to racism; he pioneered the idea of dedicated restart experts and all teams in the English football is now copying him; he has now misplaced his love for football, a startling confession casually mentioned in a brief section at the end.

Leading England through a time of anger, optimism, political ferment and lockdown was a harsh experience. The wounds are clearly still unhealed.

Commonplace Material

Throughout much of the book, the text is overrun with an robotic verbal clutter of standard management talk. Advanced copies of this book were distributed with reviewers under confidentiality clauses prior to launch, likely out of concern someone might reveal that “challenging discussions can, by their nature, be tough”, that you should always consider the consequences, that management happens where change combines with understanding.

Sincere Expression

Readers will find nonetheless real feeling here. Leading England through a period of rage, aspiration, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a grueling experience. The bruises are evidently still fresh, even if expressed in a buzzword-filled reinvention of the traditional leader story: how my decisions were correct about everything throughout.

Specific Examples

The publication’s opening passage, presented as gripping recollections of the championship match of the tournament, is entirely focused on how successful the manager actually was at substitutes (the big criticism of Southgate revolving around he was not good at making changes). Later, he delves into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – particularly the failed spot-kick decider – because he followed a predetermined process, which must mean that throwing on youthful talents at the last moment to take the biggest shot of their existence was sensible and accurate.

This was confirmed by a winning shootout against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a match where England spent the full duration looking as if they were attempting to put on a jumper the inside out. “The control we exerted in that shootout was truly exciting,” he notes, in between likening the display to elite military units neutralizing a notorious figure. Dear me.

Withheld Details

On the occasions we come near to a insight, Southgate withdraws from specifying people or giving us the substance. We hear there were problematic England players who insisted on more focus, maybe because they were pampered at the start of their time in football. But as you expect expectantly, he is already veering off into a topic titled The Culture Code, which claims that instead of a assemblage of characteristics or values, culture is in fact an element that is developed by, gah, enough, we’ve heard enough.

Strengths

Included in the stronger sections are when he discusses about the piecemeal process of fostering mental toughness in young people, or how he attempted to define national identity more coherently and more constructively than any public personality in the public eye. Best of all, there is a truly compelling account of that harrowing match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s African heritage squad members were viciously abused (and later defended robustly by their leader).

Sincere Finale

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